Grey Area – Guest Blog by the Caffeinated Cyclist

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Grey Area

I went grey in my early thirties and the fact that I still have hair on my head is astounding.

Sunday marks the second and final wedding of the year; both of my children are embarking upon the next phase of their life’s journey this year, and I will be there to witness the sendoff.

It’s not every day that a dad gets to participate in his son’s wedding. Wild horses could not have kept me from walking my daughter down the aisle, and during this wedding I am honored to stand by my son as his best man. To make it a little bit about me, I get to see my daughter walk down the aisle again as a bridesmaid and see her new husband in the front row. I get to walk my mother down the aisle for the second time, then do a lap to walk the maid of honor safely to her perch as I did with my daughter as a bride four months ago.

And I get to be the calm presence beside my son, as I have been his entire life

There’s nothing like participating in a wedding, surrounded by youth, to remind a man of his own age.

I am not resigned to getting older, but rather, I am embracing it. I am not old, I am experienced. I am not over the hill, I am doing hill repeats. The adults these children have grown to be is a reflection of the best parts of myself which have trickled down to settle in their character – parts of me I wasn’t always aware existed.

Yes, the family has grown, and in the best of ways. For this, I am happy.

But at the end of the day I return to an empty home populated only by dreams and desires.

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Debbi Serafinchon Written by:

Just an average ordinary woman being herself on this crazy ride we call life. I say what I mean and mean what I say. I chose to bring along 4 crazy side kicks on this journey, my 4 kids. The actual realization of my journey began after my divorce. Hindsight being what it is, I realized before my divorce I was just going through the steps. My eyes are now wide open to the path ahead of me.

One Comment

  1. October 29

    Thank you so kindly for sharing this, Debi. As our children grow, the words leak right out of us.

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